I'm home most nights for dinner. Little bit of travel, mostly day trips. Probably 45-50 hours a week, which is pretty typical IT. People I work with are a bunch of good ol' boys - they know and do their jobs, and expect me to know and do mine. And that's it - none of the corporate nonsense, politics and backbiting.
Took me 20-odd years to find this place, I'm hoping that things hold together here long enough so that I can retire from it.
I am in NYC. Doing more like 80 hour weeks.
What state are you in?