Exactly. Everytime I hear Obama say that, I scream at the TV and say “You don’t speak for me, dumbass. That’s exactly who I am. I despise illegal aliens and Muslims, and will not make an apology for it either.”
First time I recall hearing “it’s not who we are” was from Dem pols during the Khalid Sheikh Mohammed waterboarding controversy, as if harshly interrogating the jihadi terrorist mastermind of 9/11 was somehow a bad thing. It’s been a lib staple phrase ever since.