Would you use it in speaking to your mother re: someone else?
Depends. What is your point? Do you think everyone is supposed to be prim and proper, talk about flowers and rainbows, and hold hands and sing kumbaya. We are seeing the Middle Ages repeat themselves and we are worried about someone saying pussy.
Could I have a show of hands of posters who have used the term or would use it to describe someone to their Mother?
A yes or no will do. For one I would not
Why?
RESPECT and we seem to have lost it in our response to others here.
A wise Freeper once stated the following:
The closest thing to a universal truth that I have found is that people respond to being treated with respect.
It is sad that there is a lack of respect for OURSELVES and others here!!!