You New York Values types have a different definition of sick. Jokes about sex with daughters are sick in everyone’s book. “Cute” - wow you are so far gone you don’t even recognize it.
Honestly, for the people in my circle.... 24 years difference in age between husband and wife is a little sick. Maybe not sick... maybe just disgusting. He’s 69 and Melanie is 45. So there is probably some truth to his statement about liking young girls.