Your analogy is way off on so many levels. I think you know that.
A more accurate analogy would be terrorist woman Malik standing there with her gun pointed at you. Do you arm yourself, too, or do you pull an Obama and not allow armament? The temptation is for conflict and the threat is instigated by the side you call the woman.
Riight. And if only the women had covered themselves and acted like good Russian dhimmis Russia would not have stoned them to death.