It is about you and the lack of intelligence evidenced in your comments and questions. Lurkers see them and are put off by the low information content, illogic and unprofessional approach. When someone injects pushback on you, the lurkers are gratified to see at least some discipline of critical thinking thrown into the mix to elevate the intellectual rigor of the forum.
If lurkers are like me, after awhile they just skip your posts because they veer from the real subject at hand. :^)