The U.N. seems to be unthinkingly saying that the prediminately male refugees that have escaped from Syria and who have wife and kids have left their families behind.
Also, note that the states have always had their unique, 10th Amendment-protected powers to decide what to do with refugees, even refusing to allow refugees to enter a state imo.
But voters need to start electing state lawmakers and governors that actually know this.
This I believe.