in with the first “blame the victim” post...
They're both victims. Of a culture of stupid, timorous parents and corrupt schools that don't teach kids how to behave and then don't have the nerve to keep an eye on them. If the authorities aren't clear on what's allowed and not allowed, and if they're not serious about enforcing morality, then the school is to blame, and it's unjust to go criminal on some consensual act that wasn't sex.