I hear you! My poor Baptist granddaughters were subjected to these ridiculous rules also.
Needless to say, when they turned 18, they visited me dressed in miniskirts and attractive sleeveless tops, and with a couple of tattoos!
They are all now happily married to non-Baptist husbands, and they are much more reasonable with their children ( my great-grands)...Thank God!
Yeah; it was rough growing up, being the oddball in so many situations. The up-side is that I have NO problem dealing with peer pressure, or any pressure now.