“If both are suckling the babes, then the proper conjugate is “Mams”.”
That may be the case! The one had the eggs taken out of her and put in the other gal. Then a couple years later vice-versa! Really weird on one hand - but I thought that was an interesting way to do it. (Less of a “this one is mine” type thing.)
Poor deluded people. Children need fathers. Their child will be socially damaged by the absence of one.