Where are you reading this? Very interesting.
In addition to others I can’t remember, Rivka Edelman (aka B.N. Klein) spoke about it in her story of her childhood. Her mother was apparently so absorbed in her role of activist and her contempt for heterosexuals (breeders) that she wasn’t a parent at all. After a short web search, I wasn’t able to locate the specific story where she mentioned the part about late night plotting with her lesbian cohorts. I didn’t bookmark it. I think it is in the book Jephthah’s Daughters.
If the topic interests you, I suggest starting a search with her name and others like Katy Faust, Heather Barwick, Robert Oscar Lopez, Dawn Stephanowicz. All of those people were involved in writing amicus briefs to the supreme court before this summer’s misguided ruling. Here is one:
http://www.supremecourt.gov/ObergefellHodges/AmicusBriefs/14-556_Robert_Oscar_Lopez_and_BN_Klein.pdf
Once you start reading these people’s stories and following links to other people, you will uncover the truth that the homosexual community is trying hard to keep hidden by personally attacking these brave souls.