The difference is - she had a choice - you didn’t. So, there was nothing wrong with what I said.
Oh no! Lol. My....what a thing to say was about what she said not what you said. I was pointing out she’s a whiner. Lol
I had a choice. I always found it was easier in a crowded nightclub if I was taller. Made it easier to get around people with a loaded tray. With 3 inch heels I was 6 ft.