I'm afraid that these allies are going to start pushing hard on gay marriage as well. Perhaps shame is the wrong word. Distressed is probably better. This not the same church, IMHO, that I was confirmed in just 30 years ago..
I heard this anecdote just the other day. After spending the better part of 15 years locked in constant conflict with Pope Pius VII (which included putting the pope in prison), Napoleon Bonaparte told Pius adept Secretary of State, Cardinal Consalvi, that he would crush the Roman Catholic Church.
The cardinal sighed and shook his head over the emperors naivete and answered. "If in 1,800 years we clergy have failed to destroy the Church, do you really think that you'll be able to do it?"