Tribes have rules about who's in and who's out. They make those rules; they don't find them written in the clouds.
You're kidding, right? Their rules are "if you are born of our people, then you are a member of our tribe."
"If you are a woman taken from another tribe, now you are a member of ours."
Pretty much the United States, circa 1787.
It doesn't get simpler than that.