and you do not share them at the same time with 20 people who aren't your same sex.
I don’t really keep track of who comes and goes from them. I have both males and females in my house. I’m married to a female. We are basically humans with different body parts but in the end, when nature calls, it all ends up in the same place. A leeching field somewhere in my yard. I don’t like to dwell on it too much. Every few years, a big smelly truck comes to my house to pump it all out.