Your comment about Heidi sent me to check her out and I found this grossly mislabeled 3 minute video of Dubya telling us how it should be and what he would do, and we see what happened. I think it is instructive for us to review this snippet.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TsjUF94FS5k
(The video has nothing to do with Heidi despite its label -> my search continues)
There are a bunch of links I could post but its hard to do on a smartphone I did it yesterday on the first thread over at at