Your question is not relevant. What is a relevant question is who is the one who escalated it, and the answer to that question is her.
But I will answer your irrelevant question just for kicks and giggles. He was professional. I don't see anything wrong in what he did. She is the one who behaved like a complete ass.
Furthermore, I do not see why Texas municipalities or taxpayers should be on the hook for her decision to kill herself at all.
What is a relevant question is who is the one who escalated it...
He did.