If Scott has a very strong sense of right and wrong, why hasnt he imbued this to his wife and kids? It sounds like a house divided......the sons are passionate for gay marriage.....the wife is good with it too cause she has a lesbian aunt who recently married another lesbian.I bet he has. But that's the thing about freedom and the human spirit - you can't make someone else believe anything. I imagine his children adore him and do have a solid sense of values and right versus wrong. It may be that they respectfully disagree with their dad (and you) on this matter.