Could you explain why following God's Word on the subject is not a fully good choice.
Because in today’s United States, operating fully by God’s Word is very likely to get you sued for discrimination. Discrimination based on sex, sexual orientation or perceptions thereof. Nowadays, a fundamentalist christian could lose their job if they were accused of ‘confronting’ someone with those beliefs, even after someone came to you and asked your opinion. It’s not fair, and it’s not logical, but this is happening, on every level of employment. In today’s American, you will find very few resources ready to openly defend your right to express certain unpopular opinions.
Even the doling out of punishment under the law is now subject to ‘aspects of a minority being overly represented. Logic does not seem to have as much pull or influence as it did even ten years ago. Actions and deeds are less judged than are motivations. Now, most societal changes and adjustments seem to be based on ‘feelings’ and presumptions of attitudes.