“Has nothing to do with child molestation or sexual preference”
Most of what you say is correct, but you’re off the mark here.
You will never find a man who suffers from SSAD who was not seduce, molested, or just outright raped in his pre-adult years.
You will, of course, find men who lie about it.
That may be so....but there are also men who have seduced, molested and or outright raped in their pre-adult years who do not become homosexuals.