1. I am not convinced that any of this happened, and I would be amazed if it all did.
2. I have also been denied a full can of Coke, with the flight attendant giving me one cup, promising that I could have more, and then never coming back. I never tried to make it into a federal case.
3. If that is the most traumatic experience in her life, (a) I envy her, and (b) she should be ashamed for being so delicate.
If you’re on a short flight you only get a cup of coke. Unless the flight is empty and you schmooze the flight attendant.