Choices have consequences. Running up student loan debt for an education she isn’t going to use. Living in one of the most expensive locations in the country. Marrying a person that doesn’t have a job. Walking away from employer insurance when she has a condition that requires multiple doctor’s visits each year.
Exactly what I was thinking! Among the normal behaviors of being a responsible adult are planning, patience and compromise. Very few of us just get to do what we want all of the time. So while I empathize with what she is saying, her choices seem to be unwise. But maybe it will work out for her.