[Aut Pax Aut Bellum]

I guess three dates is all it takes nowadays...why would any of these ‘genetleman’ marry when they are already getting the metaphorical milk for free?
It's been the three date rule for decades now. Basically if you are serious about each other (a strong attraction, and it "clicks'), the average is three dates. This is why you can't trust any of them in a long term relationship-they are too quick to let someone bed them....

[AllAmericanGirl44]

That’s been the ‘rule’ for decades?

Man, I am out of touch! 3 dates, that’s barely getting to know anything about a person. Maybe this is why I’m still single?!

And no, that little girl (30 years old or not) is not a lady in any sense.