Well, things happen. I had a cousin who accepted a marriage proposal. Young and thought she was in love. Got closer to the date and she couldn’t eat, sleep... She finally broke down and told her fiance a week before the wedding that she couldn’t marry him. TBH... she could have taken the easy way out. Tons of gifts were already sent, the church booked, the reception hall booked, gown purchased BUT she took the “till death do us part” seriously. He found someone new.. she found someone new. It all works out in the end. I pity the person who feel OBLIGED to walk down the aisle when they don’t want to.
My son’s fiancee decided to go thru with the ceremony despite having met “someone else.” If only she’d had the courage to call it off. Alas all’s well that ends up well, regardless of how painful during the interim. i think of my son as the ‘luckiest man on earth!’