I grew up with some kids who lost their fathers in the war and they (and their widowed mothers) had an entirely different take on their one parent situation than do the hordes of fatherless black kids today.
Today most of the blacks who were raised without benefit of a father can’t drop their defensive posture long enough to take an unbiased look at what they might have missed out on.
Instead of holding single black mothers up as icons society needs a return to sanity.
Perhaps a return to shaming them into keeping their legs closed is what is needed.
The one thing that makes the irresponsible, animalistic black culture of today possible is federal government welfare money.
Young black men who work to provide for a family and spend their time raising their own children spend less time gang banging, stealing, looting and burning.
Fathers in the military did not reject their children.
Granted, some sperm donors aren’t allowed by the women they breed to engage in a relationship with the kids. But there is a desire to avoid paying for their trophies among certain men.
Please keep in mind there is a vast difference to a child losing a father to war and a child losing a father to indifference.
The father who is never there and doesn’t want to be around because he is busy whoring around does enormous amounts of damage to his biological children.
Children in tis situation ask themselves ‘ what is it about me that my father hates? Surely, if he didn’t hate me he would visit me, be there for me ‘ etc.
I have been through this first hand. Its awful and can take a life time to overcome.
Keeping their legs together puts a ceiling on their welfare checks.