It wasn't the abolitionists who needed to practice patience. It also wasn't the abolitionists who instigated, initiated, and declared war against their own neighbors and fellow countrymen.
I am of the opinion that slavery would have died out on it’s own.
The slavocracy attempted to found their "nation" upon the perpetuation of the Particular Institution. It was their dream that owning other humans would last forever.
” . . . perpetuation of the Particular Institution.”
So that’s what you’ve been writing about.