I’m trying to point out that you, amongst others, are simply yelling at people who do not see a civil solution, rather than trying to convince them there is one.
Your sense of moral superiority (as portrayed in your words - I will not claim to know you as a person) undermines your proclaimed goal of nurturing belief in a civil solution.
Without realizing it you are part of the problem. I have no sense of moral superiority. The voices blathering negativity are not interested in being cajoled into a reasonable position. They are simply stuck on stupid. If this seems unnecessarily huffy it probably is. “The sky is falling” is not a position. It is a surrender. Civil or not, my concern is for solutions, not surrender.