I’ll take the Church over the militant gays
It is not a necessary either-or in God’s view. There is a curious statement in the gospels that Sodom will rise up and condemn Bethsaida and Corazin at the judgment “BECAUSE THEY WOULD HAVE REPENTED.” Perhaps this means elect, although (as all men) sinners, who had not heard the gospel yet and thus not been able to accept.
And to move it to modern days, churches full of self and devoid of gospel keep on aggravating the situation.