Get a conservative version of “Go Fund Me” and problem solved.
A neutral one would be acceptable to all.
Some bright spark at VISA or Mastercard should present a case for a funding arm.
They already have a tested and proven system that could be online in a short time.
Good PR for them
We all know what will happen then - the sickos will camp out on your funding site's doorstep, demanding some perverted cause be funded by them. When refused, they'll sue.
Tolerance doesn't cut it any more, any site that won't bow to their cause is a target.
You think this nice little old lady was the only florist in town?