My wife and I have been married since we were babies, 6 children, ages 15 to 46 (2 youngest ones adopted), 14 g/children, 6 gg/children. I have very little "stuff" that I think of as "mine", wife is the same way.
The clothes in my closet, socks and underwear etc are mine, although I have seen her wear a shirt of mine on occasion, way too big for her. Just about everything else is ours. We've never thought of it any other way.
>>>The clothes in my closet, socks and underwear etc are mine, although I have seen her wear a shirt of mine on occasion, way too big for her. Just about everything else is ours. We’ve never thought of it any other way.<<<
You are happily married to say such a thing. But for millions of guys who thought like you, one day they found out their wife was leaving. Often for some pretty lame excuse like “I love you, but I’m not IN LOVE with you.” Then after you are dazed and confused that the woman you thought you would grow old with together doesn’t feel the same way, you get the joy of watching her proceed to tell you how much of “our stuff” actually belongs more to her.