My workplace is increasingly “diverse and tolerant”, publishing coming out stories of several men as well as LGBTA propaganda.
In several cases, men reported that they came out after having a wife and children. Then they decided that they were gay and started living that life.
It clearly was a choice - otherwise, none of these men would have been able to marry and make children. One guy, 4 in ten years, another 5.
This gives credence to Romans chapter 1 where the godless are “given over” to homosexuality as a consequence of their rejection of God:
21 For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened.
22 Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools
23 and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like a mortal human being and birds and animals and reptiles.
24 Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another.
25 They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.
26 Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones.
27 In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.