I think most people are aware of the CIA's role in Iran in 1953. During his rein, Iran was a emerging secular country. It was a de facto ally of the USA. Bringing up the nefarious activities while discussing Iran is similar to Obama bringing up the Crusades. Both measures were defenses of the West. It's clear that the anti-American themes oppose defending the West, yet there will always be those who point out that those who chant Death to America or G-damn America or not really our friends.
I understand soft power very well. Presumably, in the case of Iran, you think it's a magic wand that can be used by the likes of Obama instead of real power.
Hopefully you or someone else will set the national priorities on "real power".
You've got Iran, Iraq, Syria, Ukraine, Afghanistan, and now Yemen. Plus puppy dogs like the Somalia and the Philippines.
What are the priorities in the list?