What would be a wise battle to fight, in your opinion?
Many battles are worth fighting.....to use the wedding analogy, any participatory part (use of your home, being at the service, etc) would be a more worthy cause than simply providing commodities ahead of time.
But let’s get real. These are set ups, not real battles - these scenarios are contrived for just this kind of thing. In their rush to not participate in their sin, these poor people have participating instead in their scam. That’s why it’s not a hill to die on. It’s a fake hill.