Your statement is self-contradictory. If family was REALLY a priority for these women, they would be dating men who were stable providers who also had the same priorities. Not bad-boy losers with no job, no ambition, and no desire for family. They say one thing, and do the opposite. And yes, I have dated many of these kind of women-- they will not commit, behave badly as soon as they are bored, and do not really want a family. I don't think they really know what they want, other than whatever they fancy on any given day.
The men most likely to chat up the women looking for a husband are the basement-dwellers. The basement dwellers have plenty of time to devote to them and are willing to play The Game. The men they really want are at work and are too busy to play The Game.
If the woman would find a good financially-stable man and then devote herself to him, everything would come together. But they can’t help but play the Game.