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To Battle 'Inner Emptiness,' Mom Goes on a Two-Year Trek Around the World
Yahoo Parenting ^
| 3/24/2015
| Erin Zammett Ruddy
Posted on 03/24/2015 8:55:40 AM PDT by qam1
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To: GeronL
“She could have went to church”
The central focus of church is not her....so...no
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posted on
03/24/2015 11:00:04 AM PDT
by
AppyPappy
(If you are not part of the solution, there is good money to be made prolonging the problem.)
To: AppyPappy
62
posted on
03/24/2015 11:01:13 AM PDT
by
GeronL
To: Tax-chick
“Shoot me.”
Too much effort. Run into the bullet while I watch the game. Beer me first.
63
posted on
03/24/2015 11:01:20 AM PDT
by
AppyPappy
(If you are not part of the solution, there is good money to be made prolonging the problem.)
To: Kozak
I had trouble reading carefully because I found the alleged mother too revolting for words. Thank you for the correction.
64
posted on
03/24/2015 11:02:53 AM PDT
by
Pollster1
("Shall not be infringed" is unambiguous.)
To: qam1
The article is full of stuff like this
"I felt so isolated like I was supposed to do everything on my own. If I asked for help or needed to go out with friends for a night, I felt like that would be cheating, looking at someone elses paper. You know the saying It takes a village to raise a child? I wasnt letting the village in. I truly thought that in order to be a good mother, I was supposed to not exist."
I don't have any kids yet, but COME ON! Is it really this hard?!?
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posted on
03/24/2015 11:07:46 AM PDT
by
thefactor
(yes, as a matter of fact, i DID only read the excerpt)
To: sten
66
posted on
03/24/2015 11:12:53 AM PDT
by
steve8714
(Traditional Catholics want Latin Mass. Traditional Muslims want your head.)
To: thefactor
It’s hard if you are a Drama Momma.
In my parents time, the father took the mother on a trip within 6 months of birth to “break” the obsessive nature of motherhood.
It’s hard depending on you respond to it. If you freak out every time the baby cries, yeah, it’s going to suck.
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posted on
03/24/2015 11:18:40 AM PDT
by
AppyPappy
(If you are not part of the solution, there is good money to be made prolonging the problem.)
To: BenLurkin
Exactly what I was thinking. I am surprised she has a husband. But at least he is there to care for the child while she goes and “finds” herself. I suspect she has no respect for her husband. I suspect she will divorce him and join some lesbian and become an environmental activist.
To: Organic Panic
Another poster up thread what’s this is not what the full article sayS. It appears I may have been a victim of misleading headline
69
posted on
03/24/2015 12:01:29 PM PDT
by
BenLurkin
(The above is not a statement of fact. It is either satire or opinion. Or both.)
To: Lorianne
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posted on
03/24/2015 12:35:03 PM PDT
by
gibsosa
To: raybbr; trisham
Yes, inner emptiness or depression is very painful. It sounds as though she found a sort of “nature as God” that works for her. It’s certainly better than booze or drugs!
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posted on
03/24/2015 12:35:50 PM PDT
by
Tax-chick
(Google "tiny kitten pictures," and put down the gun.)
To: BykrBayb
Thanks for asking! It’s a little cold for me, but the sound of lawnmowing is agreeable, even if it’s not any of MY laconic teens doing it.
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posted on
03/24/2015 12:38:39 PM PDT
by
Tax-chick
(Google "tiny kitten pictures," and put down the gun.)
To: thefactor
73
posted on
03/24/2015 12:40:25 PM PDT
by
Tax-chick
(Google "tiny kitten pictures," and put down the gun.)
To: Tax-chick
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posted on
03/24/2015 12:45:53 PM PDT
by
trisham
(Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
To: Tax-chick
I only had my mom as an example. A single mother who worked the graveyard shift as an ER nurse for 30-some years and probably took three vacations away from our home in that time. And this woman is complaining about this "it takes a village" nonsense while going on incredible trips for weeks at a time.
Now, I'm well aware that life isn't fair and even. But who's going to feel sorry for this world-traveling mother with one kid?
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posted on
03/24/2015 1:01:13 PM PDT
by
thefactor
(yes, as a matter of fact, i DID only read the excerpt)
To: thefactor
She was writing about how it feels when you believe that you, as the mother, must be absolutely everything to your child, and that you can have nothing else in your life. It's easy to believe this. After all, you "chose" to have a child, and that "choice" eliminated the choices to ... go out to dinner with a girlfriend; sleep at night; visit your parents; see a movie; ask anyone for help;
ad infinitum.
Some people apparently succeed at this, which puts extra pressure on all the rest ... except when you actually get to know the "models," they're on antidepressants.
But who's going to feel sorry for this world-traveling mother with one kid?
Someone with compassion?
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posted on
03/24/2015 1:13:13 PM PDT
by
Tax-chick
(Google "tiny kitten pictures," and put down the gun.)
To: dfwgator
Oh, you're no fun, anymore. ;) Not fun, but very thin: I gave up wine for Lent.
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posted on
03/24/2015 1:15:36 PM PDT
by
Tax-chick
(Google "tiny kitten pictures," and put down the gun.)
To: Tax-chick
I'm sorry, but this woman obviously has found a way to enjoy an incredibly full life AFTER she had a kid. She's proving that all the troubles she had when her son was born have been easily tossed aside and she can travel the world in order to find herself. So if she can do it, why can't others? Just follow her advice, and POOF! No more worries. Of course, that's nonsense. This particular woman has the means to live like this while many, many others do not.
And yeah, children are a choice. I live in NYC. I know plenty of people who will never have kids and they are fine with that decision. And I know people with kids who never should have had them.
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posted on
03/24/2015 1:24:06 PM PDT
by
thefactor
(yes, as a matter of fact, i DID only read the excerpt)
To: dware
If she can afford this, and I can't, then obviously they are NOT paying their fair share. Well since she wrote about her travels in her book, she probably deducted the cost of these trips off her taxes as a business expense.
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posted on
03/24/2015 1:29:47 PM PDT
by
qam1
(There's been a huge party. All plates and the bottles are empty, all that's left is the bill to pay)
To: Tax-chick
The sound of a lawnmower spells nap time for me! :~0
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posted on
03/24/2015 1:35:16 PM PDT
by
BykrBayb
(Where there is life, there is hope. - Terri Schiavo ~ Þ)
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