[SpaceBar]

You cannot, with any certainty, trace an IP address to any specific physical location. It just don’t work that way. People been watchin’ too much TV.

Correct.

[minnesota_bound]

You can get close. There was a guy named Kevin Mitnick who was traced to the general area where he lived using cell trackers. It was an apartment and the investigators then used cell phone tracer to narrow where he was on what floor.
http://archive.wired.com/wired/archive/4.02/catching.html

Wiki bio
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kevin_Mitnick

He should be hired to locate the server and also to hack into it.

The ISP you are using has your history. The phone too. Don’t forget about the NSA.