A gay guy I’ve known for my whole life says that most homosexuals really aren’t. He says that 90% are only gay as a political tool or for the victim perks. He says its why so many gays and lesbians are angry all the time.
RE: He says that 90% are only gay as a political tool or for the victim perks.
OK What about the 10%?
The lesbians and gays I’ve met are very different, just as female and male sexualities are quite different.
I don’t think I’ve ever met a lesbian that thought she was “born gay.” Many of the lesbians I have talked to (and the dozen or so I have talked to are no representation of lesbian opinions) have had experiences with men and frankly, many still have interest in men.
The gay males I have talked to, on the other hand, are extremely scared of sexual interaction with females. There’s just something in their past that averted them away from interest in females, many times a traumatic sexual encounter with a male. I noticed, also, that there is a LOT of self-destructive behavior in their community (a lot of drugs). Older gay males, who have “weathered the storm” grow out of that behavior. Many of them are not activist, either, but the ones that are try to speak for the group. This is where all the flak comes from.
I’ve met a few ex-gays and lesbians as well, even ones that quit the lifestyle but are not Christian. One of my friends just said the ketamine and lifestyle of wild abandon was killing him, so he got out while he could.