So you’re saying not all gays started out that way, some got sucked into it?
I’m saying I think it’s possible and I’ve seen evidence for it, yes.
Many boys that are molested grow up to be gay. Many molest as adults. You’ll hear from the media that there’s a complete separation between child molesters and being gay, yet many molesters also identify as being gay.
There’s more complexity than we really understand, it’s just such a PC topic we’ll never have open and honest research.
If it is malleable then there must be ways to coerce oneself in either direction. That said, if you’ve embraced your entire identity as being gay it might be too difficult to change. Given the health statistics, if somebody CAN change it shouldn’t be discouraged. Having same sex attraction is one thing but embracing the promiscuous gay lifestyle is another, it’s like encouraging a drunk to drink more.