A good question for 'she who must be in charge'...
Not worth the conversation.
It will instantly go militantly personal, without ever addressing the issue.
And then the rest if the day gets real fun because she hasn’t the ability to make simple conversation and is pathologicaly unable to apologize but will, with great vigor, look for any outward excuse as to why the dust up happened and will never occurr where the genesis took place.
And just to be sure you never discuss anything reasonable or salient, certain words will be seized upon to undermine the conversation and never discuss how it started.
If you’ve ever been married, maybe that happened to you but, you’re so reasoned, I can’t imagine.
Hemlock with ice and a spritz of lemon is delicious but, if you have too much at one time you’re going to go from sick to dead in short order.