I understand your sentiments, but it is not ours to render judgement or even pretend to - if we see someone who seems to be heading for Hell, it is our job to try to salvage them for the Glory of God. Just as Jonah wasn’t allowed to leave the sinful in Nineveh to their own evil propensities, we should make more effort to help those who appear to need redemption find the path to it.
You have a gentle and discerning soul, and I thank your for you comment. Something for me to contemplate. May the Lord Jesus Christ bless you, and yours.