Are you Catholic? You seem to need a refresher on what participation at Mass is.
Yes. Lifelong Catholic. But post Vatican II. Was raised with English Mass and females serving as altar girls and Eucharistic Ministers, Lay readers, serving in the choir and other parts of the Mass as well.
I’m not one of those Catholics who say only the Latin Mass is acceptable, or only Holy Communion received directly on the tongue is acceptable. I have no problem with Catholics who prefer the Latin Mass or Holy Communion on the tongue, that’s fine with me. But that’s not what I raised with.