It would have been less bad to have polygamy, than this. You can have some semblance of normal love in polygamy. Not this hate based charade.
Anyhow, I hope we all get serious enough about the Lord to have a gospel to actually share, not to just complain that others are making it difficult for us to believe.
Secularists have defined marriage as people “loving” each other. That’s all that matters according to them. So if two men love each other, or a man loves three women, or a woman loves her brother, they should be able to get married. And then when they are no longer in love, you can terminate the marriage. Nowhere in their definition is a commitment before God or any type of bond or commitment beyond a child-like, head-over-heels puppy love feeling.