[xzins]

You can’t be a pedophile if the girl is 17.

Here’s the snopes account of the deferment:

http://www.snopes.com/politics/military/nugent.asp

[Garfunkel Oates]

You can’t be a pedophile if the girl is 17 and the guy is 30? Ok...

What if the girl is 16? What if she is 15 and looks like she is 17?

It seems that your definition of pedophilia is a grey area.