Then stop telling men how they are to provide for your security.
Why of course they are supposed to do so by feeding their children to killers.
What?
Men are supposed to provide for women’s security. I am not a feminist. You may not agree with me, which is fine, but men are to protect their women and children. Women are to care for their men and children, but protect their children in the absence of their men.
If my children and I were in danger, don’t you think I should be able to count on my husband to protect us as best he can?