The more you let loose of this entire situation and the family members the more the Lord will give you a remarkable understanding of the dynamics, as he did at tht moment she said that.....Though I think you ‘see’ them...sometimes it takes a bit longer for the heart to catch up with the mind.
I am pretty clear on the dynamics.
I am not doing my part and that has to end.
It’ll be healthy for them and clarify just how far things have gone.
Had a friend years ago who attacked his wife twice in a one week period.
I ended our friendship on the spot.
As I understand it they both went and got counseling and he is the best husband ever.
Who knows.
I’ll never talk to him again and we were like brothers.