I have learned too that when the mother or father depart whatever your relationship with each family member will esculate...if good then it’ll get even better...if bad...you likely won’t see them much after if that.
And I thought we had a good tight relationship.... Someone has a spouse that is controlling them to do XYZ. But your spouse can’t make you do what you really are against. I feel like an orphan, like I lost everyone. And no one has even died yet.
With respect the dust hasn’t settled yet.....ou’ll be surprised how things will level out with time....everyones “in process” in one form or another.
My sister and I remain close though for a time I didn’t speak with her....we never spoke about it. Some things you have to let go along the wayside and let God settle matters in his own good time...do what you can and let the rest just go.
As said, my sister is massively controlling....nothings going to change that about her and I finally just gave it up...now we speak and share as never before....
Give it time..God does do remarkable things with families.