I know this sounds base, and deflating, but line up lawyers NOW.
You won’t have the presence of mind when something happens to do it then, trust me. And the strange thing is, the buzzards all act like it’s perfectly normal, and band together, like swarmers at a garage sale.
People show their true colors when there’s $$$ to be scavenged.
Don’t lawyers take 30%?
I am told by every friend to get an attorney, but it would just kill my mom. She can’t remember anything for 5 minutes, but she is still aware in the present time, and she would probably be dragged into anything if something were done now. She tells me what her actual wishes were, and what it seems like is that she may have been bamboozeled (when no one knew she was coming down with dementia) into doing otherwise. She doesn’t realize it didn’t happen that way and when I tell her, she gets very sad and upset. There is nothing she can do any more. They got her signature.
I will just have to pray that they will be fair.