Sorry. Losing someone too soon is bad enough. Having them murdered is terrible.
I know. I feel so bad for her. Right now she is focused on the funeral, but there will be the ongoing police investigation and all of that. She has a long road ahead of her.
It is ALWAYS terrible losing a child. I have been through the death of 2 nieces so I have some idea about that. Sometimes you just have to cry all over again. My heart goes out to you and your wife.