That would be your attitude toward someone you dearly loved on earth, but was burning alive forever in the afterlife?
If I was truly drawn into feeling I dearly loved the person, then I would say well, I had been fooled by hell’s puppet.
Nobody goes to hell except that they choose it.
Have thought of that many times, and the only answer I have come up with, is our memories are erased...otherwise heaven will be hell if our loved ones are there..