My chief beef here... it’s still a team effort even if not every player actually carries the ball. Some guard and help the players who ARE carrying the ball.
Spoutings about “SOCIETY is so bad, ergo marriage is a rotten option for me” are so off target (to mix the sports metaphors).
Well some of us spent years not finding the right person, and some never married, but in the end ...there is no marriage in heaven or sex. Jesus explained that when they asked about the brothers who died, and whose wife she would be?
‘The grass is always greener on the other side for some’, so there is a lot of adultery, divorce, and now we have the gay movement. If men think they are confused, think about the single women who do want a normal life (not feminists)...it’s hard to know who you can flirt with, and who you can’t. Anyone who has spent any length of time single in this dating atmosphere in past thirty years...whew...not good, especially for Christians.